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All of the resources, materials, and downloads found on this site help men discover how to make the most of their talents, skills, and resources. Living according to your maximum potential makes a positive impact not only in your professional life but also in your personal life. Fulfilling your purpose ultimately brings glory to God and leads to leaving a lasting legacy. To learn how to keep reading below.
For most of my life, I’ve pursued excellence in everything I did. Whether it was school, sports, my business, or whatever else, the goal was always the same, “be the best at what you do.” Although this philosophy resulted in significant achievements, I still felt there was something more to life. Somehow, despite everything I accomplished, there was uneasiness with being defined by what I did, what I had, or what I didn’t have. In essence, “Who is Carlos?”. Despite appearing simplistic, this question resonated deep within me and sent me on a quest to find the proper answer. I overcame many obstacles, roadblocks, and heartaches to discover the truth and learned who I was and the true meaning of manhood.
This truth was that as men, we fulfill our purpose when we live for something beyond ourselves and, in the process, glorify God. Straightforward enough but much more challenging in an application. After years of mentorship, reflective study, refinement, and leading other men, I created a process. Part of this process is living according to three fundamental tenets (FX3®) necessary for every man to grow in his faith and fulfill his purpose. Now I have a calling to share this discovery with other men and help them live a successful and fulfilling life by helping them draw closer to God and the transformative power of his word
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Most men are winning superficial battles but losing the war for a genuinely fulfilling life. For decades men were told to chase distractions such as cars, money, sports, entertainment, and women to find fulfillment. Others have spent their lives running from something. In addition, today’s culture seems increasingly convinced to tell men there are no real differences between genders; instead, everyone is just a person. Any recognition of distinct qualities of male and female is not only denied but most often condemned as sexist or ignorant. Going further, society today continues telling men they are disposable, unnecessary, and the root of society’s problems. The result: a worldwide growing crisis among men, loss of identity and purpose.
We no longer know what it means to be a man. We’ve passively handed over our identity and purpose for society to redefine manhood for us. We’ve stood by the sidelines, waiting for our turn to get into the arena. In the process, we’ve also sidelined our effectiveness and potential contribution to society.
To battle against this threat to manhood we need warriors. Warriors to defend, protect, and uphold the sanctity of biblical manhood and the good it provides to all. Unlike the stereotypical hard-charging, overtly aggressive, and selfish man, an FX3® Warrior lives to serve others.
Most of the FX3® materials available online are a self-guided and group based way for men to grow in their faith and find their identity. However, many men prefer a more one-to-one approach. This is where individual one-to-one coaching approach is the most effective as it’s in-depth, wholistic, and focused on your specific needs. We work together to help you develop a roadmap for success and, along the way, I provide you with the appropriate guidance necessary to reach your goals.
Although every person is unique, many men struggle with similar challenges such as spiritual development, emotional intelligence, imposter syndrome, heightened self-awareness, critical thinking skills, burnout, and improved interpersonal skills. For this reason, I also provide insight and resources to ensure that your progress is consistent and transformative including support through accountability.